Flirting and Love in Islam..:D

Assalamualaikum to all of you . How are you guys ? Its been a while that I didn't update my blog post . Huhu . Yalah , as you all knew , I'm a SPM candidates . So , life as a SPM candidates full with study study study and exam exam exam . Alhamdulillah , I've just finished my SPM Trial . It was tough for me I think . Haha . Because I'm not that hardworking type in study , but I guarantee that for those that was very hardworking studying , I don't think this SPM Trial was tough for them . Hehe . :D To my friend , hey , its still not that late to study oke ? So , lets all struggle to strive this upcoming SPM ! Gud luck gud luck ! :D

Haha . Sorry for running out from the title just now . Oke , for this post , I want to share with you guys what is the meaning of FLIRTING and LOVE in Islam . Its not that much , but I do want to share with you guys . A little bit of knowledge is better than doesn't have any knowledge at all right ? :) These days , everyone wants to be in LOVE especially the TEENAGERS . But unfortunately , they don't even know weather what are they doing is a GOOD things or a BAD things . So , I hope , after reading this post , you guys can compare between the GOOD things and BAD things and let us together start to change ourselves from the BAD to the GOOD . Oke ? :)

It is a must for someone to begin their LOVE with a FLIRT right ? So , what is the meaning of FLIRT and LOVE in Islam ? Is it alright for a Muslim guy to make a conversation with a Muslim girl ? These type of question for sure always in the head of a Muslim Teenagers who is very concern in the Islam theory . For those who Muslims Teenagers that are not very concern with it (like me =.=) , they must be using a type of theory like "REDAH JELA" or "HANTAM SAJALAH" . :D The wrong thought and misunderstanding about this concept can create a conflict between the Muslims youth . 

Actually , both FLIRT and LOVE are important in our life . :) There is no one that can run from flirting and loving even after they get married . :) Right right right ? Besides that , LOVE is the beginning of a marriage and the FLIRT is the beginning of LOVE . These two things closely related except for those WHO WERE FORCED TO GET MARRIED WITH EACH OTHER just like in the Malays Drama . Huhu . Marriage is not an easy thing to do , for me if the couple were forced to get married with each other , this will make marriage harder .

FLIRT and LOVE can be considered useful if it brings you towards a GOOD thing . For example FLIRT and LOVE which is followed by marriage and having a family is useful because it bring us the GOODS . :) After having a family , then it comes a community that leads to a COUNTRY . Haha . :D So , isn't in this context , FLIRT and LOVE is important in Islam to ? Yes because we as a 'Khalifah' of ALLAH S.W.T were asked to keep on our survival until 'Kiamat' ? If the human didn't FLIRT and LOVE , sooner or later we all will became extinct like the dinosour . Hehe . :P

From the other side , FLIRT and LOVE can also be considered as unuseful and will lead us to the BAD . These type of FLIRT and LOVE wasn't for the beginning of marriage , but it is the beginning of creating an illegitimate child and throwing away babies into the dustbin ! Haish . :'( This type of FLIRT and LOVE are 'HARAM' in Islam . Also , for a reminder , FLIRT and LOVE will lead us to feelings and emotion (which sometime can lead us to a BAD things) . So , for those who really want to involve in flirting and loving , they must make an effort to use their BRAIN WISELY . Oke ? :)

Even as a Muslims , we were asked to prevent ourselves from the physical context and which will lead to SEX and violation of Islamic rules like ZINA . In this case , it is IMPORTANT for a Muslims Individual should follow Rasulullah guidance . Rasulullah forbid the Muslims to take control of themselves so that they are not going to be OVER in FLIRTING . He also asked us to fall in LOVE for Allah which means to LOVE the loved ones for ALLAH . :)



Islam do bring us towards LOVE . LOVE to ALLAH , LOVE to RASUL , LOVE to the COUNTRY , and LOVE between the HUMANS . :) Thats why Rasulullah also asked us to exposed LOVE to the children . In a hadis , Rasulullah do says : Placed the LOVE in your children hearts so that they will LOVE ALLAH , LOVE RASUL , LOVE the RASUL family members , and LOVE to read the QURAN . :)

This is proven that LOVE is an important thing that need to be apply in every Muslims until the Rasulullah do said that you all won't be able to enter the Heaven as long as you didn't learn to LOVE between one and another . :) So , for the TEENAGERS that fell in LOVE , sure does it didn't against the FITRAH . It is a FITRAH but they need to control the way they in LOVE . Thats all . Finally , LOVE isn't only about the FEELINGS , it is also about RESPONSIBILITY . :))



*IM SORRY AND IF ANYTHING FROM THIS CONTENT IS WRONG , I HOPE U CAN CORRECT IT FOR ME . THANK YOU .
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